A Deacon's Heart with Anne Reed
A Deacon's Heart with Anne Reed
We are honored to have the Rev. Anne Reed, Episcopal Deacon, who speaks with us about her varied ministries following her retirement from her secular work. In this conversation, Anne embodies what many of us call a "deacon's heart," demonstrating the joy that comes from seeking and serving Christ in others, and connecting the church and the world.
HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 A Deacon's Heart with Anne Reed
00:20 Introduction
01:21 Anne's Many Ministries as a Deacon
03:19 Serving in Multiple Churches
06:54 Habitat for Humanity
10:13 The Seamen's Church
14:50 Surprise and Joy
16:39 Music and the Spirit
20:50 Foot Care Ministry
23:09 Contact
24:13 Final Words
25:31 Thanks
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Anne's email: dcnareed@gmail.com
Seamen's Church Institute: https://seamenschurch.org/
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:Jon: Welcome to Good News, being
brought to you by Listening for Clues.
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:Lauren: We are Lauren Welch and
Jon Shematek, deacons in the
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:Episcopal Diocese of Maryland.
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:Jon: We sure are, and today
we've got a really special guest,
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:a longtime friend and deacon
colleague, the Reverend Anne Reed.
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:Anne is currently living in Cincinnati
and serving as deacon, not in just
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:one, but in two congregations,
which I sure want to hear about.
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:Anne's also the chaplain associate
for the Seamen's Church Institute.
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:She's a Habitat volunteer.
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:She sings, I'm assuming Sweet Adeline
is a barbershop type of group, sings
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:with Sweet Adeline, and you are
a foot care volunteer, which also
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:seems like kind of a unique thing.
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:So, Anne, welcome.
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:We're so glad to have you here today.
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:Anne: Thank you, Jon and Lauren.
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:It's wonderful to be with you.
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:Lauren: We are delighted
to be with you, Anne.
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:So, tell us about your
diaconal Ministries.
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:You are involved in so many
in this retirement of yours.
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:Anne: Right.
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:Well as I was approaching retirement, I
wondered how I wanted to spend my time.
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:And I was trained at Shalem
as a Spiritual Director.
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:A few years ago.
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:I did that prior to, I guess I
did that about eight years ago.
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:And so I started offering spiritual
direction while I was still working full
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:time at the Diocese of Southern Ohio.
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:And then I also When I became the director
of the Transfiguration Spirituality
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:Center for five years, that sort of meshed
really well with my spiritual direction.
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:So that was my paid employment position.
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:And the pandemic hit and retreat
centers went offline a good bit.
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:And my husband Giff and I decided
that we would retire in:
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:So...
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:From our paying jobs, if you will.
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:We haven't retired from life.
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:We've just retired from
collecting a regular paycheck.
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:So the things that I was involved in
before I retired from full time work have
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:continued but they've taken on more life.
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:So the Seamen's Church Institute
chaplaincy really has become more
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:robust in my retirement days.
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:And serving as a deacon in two
congregations, Is a blessing.
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:And one is a historically black
congregation in Cincinnati.
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:It's about an hour, a
mile from where I live.
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:And the other is a suburban congregation
where the priest and I were friends from
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:previous days and so when he came to
the diocese, we got reconnected and he
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:asked me to come serve as deacon there.
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:So that's how I ended up in two churches.
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:Jon: Yeah.
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:And so, Ann, that is kind of
a, that's a very interesting
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:story about the two churches.
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:Are they, aside from you, you're the
link between them, I guess, but is
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:there, is there a relationship as well
between these different populations
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:and congregations or not really?
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:Anne: Not very much.
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:The part of town where the larger
primarily white congregation
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:is located is in pretty much a
northern suburb of Cincinnati.
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:It has affiliations with three
other Episcopal churches.
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:The other historically black
church In the Cincinnati area, St.
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:Simon of Cyrene, and that's close
to where Christ Church Glendale
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:is, which is the larger church.
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:St.
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:Andrew's Evanston, which is the African
American church I serve is more in
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:relationship with churches that are in the
city proper rather than in the suburbs.
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:However, um, I am the link.
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:And so, there's a ministry at
Christ Church Glendale in which
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:women are making mats for people
who are living out on the street.
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:They're mats made out of knit together,
crocheted together out of plastic bags and
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:so these mats, they're basically bedrolls.
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:And and St.
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:Andrew's has a pantry.
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:Where they meet the needs of those who
are living without a roof over their
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:heads or those who are struggling
financially to feed their families.
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:And so they got the first bedroll that's,
that Christchurch made was given to
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:their pantry so that they could pass it
on to so they're knit together that way.
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:Jon: Literally.
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:Yeah.
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:Literally.
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:Yeah.
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:Yeah I've always wondered about deacons
that are serving in more than one parish.
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:And I'm thinking here in this diocese,
we're starting to see a little bit more
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:of that because we're few in number and
always have been few in, and I think
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:it's just like so much of the way the
church is changing . So you find it
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:challenging to divide your time between
the two congregations or have you
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:settled into a routine of some sort?
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:Anne: I think over the
years it's become a routine.
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:I've been doing it now for
about five years or more.
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:And St.
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:Andrew's was the first year.
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:I served St.
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:Andrew's first and and that was
when I was working full time.
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:I felt the need to have a connection.
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:It was very challenging because
I was on Bishop's staff.
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:It was very challenging to find a
congregation that would accept my
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:ministry as diaconal ministry rather
than as Bishop's staff ministry.
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:And so St.
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:Andrew's was.
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:willing and able to receive my
ministry as well as for me to
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:work with them in many ways.
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:As at the time it felt proper for
me to be there about once a month.
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:It has evolved into essentially
two Sundays at Christ Church
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:Glendale, one Sunday at St.
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:Andrews, and I rotate, through those.
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:And leadership has changed at St.
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:Andrews, so there's a tighter
connection now than there was before.
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:I don't find it difficult or challenging,
because in the Diocese of Southern
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:Ohio Bishop Reidenthal, who was the
bishop under whom I served when I first
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:came, encouraged deacons to not just
make the church their ministry, but to
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:also have a connection in the world.
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:So that was when the
Habitat ministry started.
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:And so I helped coordinate
with a colleague and friend
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:this coalition of churches.
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:It's called the Hope Coalition.
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:And when it was founded, they were both
Episcopal and non Episcopal churches.
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:And we came together and we provided
volunteers and lunches on Saturdays
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:for a habitat build, we would pick
one site and we would stick with
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:that for the build season, which
was generally the summer and St.
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:Andrew's was a part of that.
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:And Christchurch was a part
of that both still are.
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:And so, i, part of my time,
if you will, my diaconal time,
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:is coordinating that effort.
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:There's a lot of help I have
a friend, Christina, who helps
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:with communication and so forth.
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:So we're, there's a lot of us
out there pulling together.
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:As folks have aged, we're now mostly
doing lunches on Saturdays during the
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:build season so my efforts are like being
somewhere liturgically on Sunday, but
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:then expanding that and trying to connect
the congregations to the ministry in the
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:world that the bishop had encouraged us to
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:Jon: do.
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:Well, that sounds very true
to our vows as deacons.
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:That's right there
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:Lauren: anne, can you tell us a
little bit more about the lunches
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:that you provide for the hapithal?
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:I found, I find that really interesting.
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:Anne: Well, you know pre pandemic,
we had People making lunches.
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:wE had a, every congregation that was
part of the coalition would have a crew
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:of volunteers, individuals or volunteers,
who would make lunches for the workers.
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:And pre pandemic they were
making 20 lunches a day.
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:Saturday and they folks from the church
would deliver the lunches and it provides
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:an opportunity for the volunteers to
eat well and not have to leave the site.
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:So it keeps the workday more efficient.
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:And so we provided lunches for up
to 20 people prior to the pandemic.
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:After the pandemic rules have changed
and so forth, but we have congregations
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:providing 10 to 12 lunches a day, a
Saturday and they're on a rotation.
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:So of the five churches, each church
takes a Saturday and they give two or
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:three times, during the summer months.
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:It depends on how long the build is.
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:Lauren: So this is a way for people
to be involved in habitat, but not
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:have to be building and there all day.
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:Anne: Well, I, I'm one of the few
people who still goes and builds.
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:Yes.
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:Of, of that crowd.
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:I'm one of the few that
still goes and builds.
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:We do have a few but as the
congregations are aging, and I
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:think the heat makes it hard.
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:You know, this global warming situation
we're in makes it hard for folks.
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:of a certain age to feel comfortable
working in, you know, 85 degree,
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:90 degree weather, hammering and
sweating like a crazy person is,
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:it's not necessarily the wisest
decision for people of a certain age.
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:So but they can make lunch and they
can deliver lunches and they do.
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:That's great.
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:Jon: That's great.
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:There's something, something
for everyone, you know, whatever
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:your skills and energy lies.
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:So, and one of the other things
that you're doing, which really
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:interests me is the let's see, I
want to get the name of it right.
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:The Seamen's Church.
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:Institute and I'm thinking now my
geography is pretty bad since you're
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:in Cincinnati That's on the Ohio River.
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:I think good.
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:That's good, Jon What what whether
these seamen where do they come from and
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:what are you doing with that Institute?
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:Anne: Well you know, I knew about
the Seamen's Church Institute from
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:living in Baltimore, and Baltimore
has the Chesapeake Bay, of course, and
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:blue water, which is what the oceans
and the large bodies of water are
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:called, blue water are referred to,
and, oh, Cincinnati has brown water.
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:We have the Ohio River, and I'm
looking at it right now out my
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:window, and, Doesn't look brown.
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:It looks a little grayish
green, but it looks healthy.
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:So that's good the Mississippi River
tributaries and inland waterways
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:that are navigable are in fact
some of the largest commercial
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:transportation pathways in our country.
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:I watch towboats and barges go
up and down the river every day.
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:I have a little log that I keep
just as my little hobby when I see
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:a towboat go by, I write it down.
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:I write down what time it goes
by and, um, the name of the
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:towboat and what the cargo is.
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:And so I see coal and gravel and
petroleum and asphalt go by my
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:balcony, uh, pretty much every day.
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:So, yeah, so, so we are a
commercial roadway, if you will.
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:The folks that work that
waterway are under represented.
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:They are unknown.
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:They're hidden as a culture
and as a workforce.
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:It's unknown to probably 80 percent of
the population in the United States.
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:So Seamen's Church Institute has a
has an office in Paducah, Kentucky,
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:which is very close to where the
Ohio River joins the Mississippi.
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:They have a training center there to
help train their boat staff, there are
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:captains and pilots and deckhands and so
forth in this training center every year.
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:And so my job as a chaplain
associate is to be available.
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:I'm a volunteer
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:the port of Cincinnati is a misnomer
because there isn't really a port per se.
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:There's not like a central location,
but there are five companies that staff
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:towboats up and down the Ohio river
that are within the Cincinnati area.
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:And so one of the main ways
I connect with them is.
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:through our Christmas on the
River or Christmas at Sea
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:program that we do every year.
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:So but if there's a crisis I can get a
phone call and I have gotten phone calls
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:from the chaplain, the paid chaplain
in Paducah because I can get there.
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:Paducah's five hours from here.
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:So if there's an incident where a A
towboat is going to be closer to me.
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:They'll call me and ask me to respond.
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:Lauren: What inspired you
to get involved in this?
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:I mean, you were doing so much with
the congregations and I'm, I also want
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:to hear about the foot care volunteer,
but what inspired you to get involved
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:in the Seamen's Church Institute?
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:Anne: I've always had an affinity for
water, even though I'm not a good swimmer.
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:I love to be on it, not in it.
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:I'm an on the water girl,
not an in the water girl.
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:And I love, I love being on the water.
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:And water is just so life giving for me.
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:My dad at one time after, while I was in
college, actually, my father got a boat
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:and I lived near the Delaware River.
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:So I've always lived sort of near water.
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:And...
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:I just feel like, I don't know,
I, it's hard to explain because
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:it's just like, it's a gut
feeling more than anything else.
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:It's just, I need to do this.
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:I want to do this.
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:I want to be part of that community.
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:I've never worked in that industry.
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:But I have so much respect for the
people who do and I and I'm a support
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:person and I felt like this was a way
that I could support and encourage
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:people who work in that industry.
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:Lauren: What has surprised you about
the Seamen's Institute or any of
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:the work that you've been doing?
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:What what what has brought
you the greatest joy?
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:Anne: Well, Mark Nesselhut, who's the
president developed a relationship with
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:this SUNY Maritime College, which is State
University of New York Maritime College
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:in Fort Schuyler, New York, which is
just on the east side of New York City.
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:And so, In this relationship, the
school asked Seamen's Church to provide
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:chaplains for their summer cruise, which
is a requirement of all of the cadets
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:at some time during their schooling.
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:They have to do this
eight week summer cruise.
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:And they asked the Seamen's Church
if they would provide chaplains.
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:So I had the privilege last year
of being a chaplain on their
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:summer cruise for two weeks.
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:And so, although the cruise itself
went from New York to Philadelphia
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:to Spain and then to Belfast,
Ireland, and then back again.
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:In the first two weeks, which
was sort of the shakedown cruise,
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:I basically did donuts in the
Atlantic ocean, which was just fine.
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:And I went from New York to Philadelphia
in two weeks, if you can imagine.
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:Wow.
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:You can walk it faster so so my
surprise and I think my delight
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:really was discovering how much
I loved that chaplaincy work.
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:I had never really thought of myself
in those terms as a chaplain before.
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:And so being able to do that was.
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:A real life giving experience for me.
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:And I would do it again in a heartbeat.
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:Jon: Yeah.
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:Wow.
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:So Ann you and Lauren and I all were
ordained after many years it feels like
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:of it was a long time in preparation.
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:It was.
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:Well, it was, it was like we
we're slightly over 34 years now.
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:Yes we are of our ordained life.
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:But you know, whenever I think of you,
I think back to those days when we
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:were in Deacon formation, and one of
my deepest and strongest memories is
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:your love of music, and particularly
when you would lead us or even do solo
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:chanting of so much of the Taizé music.
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:And it just warms my heart to
even recall that right now.
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:I can hear your voice so clearly.
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:So, music, I know you're at the Sweet
Adelines now, but what it's a little
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:different than Taizé, but music obviously
has meant something to you and is part
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:of your connection with the spirit.
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:Could you just talk
about that a little bit?
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:Anne: Sure.
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:Thanks, Jon.
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:And thank you for that
memory those memories.
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:I I pray through hymnody It's
interesting because I feel like when
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:I'm singing a hymn, I'm saying a prayer.
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:I've had the privilege of singing
the Exsultet at the Easter Vigil
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:for almost 40 years, because I did
it before I was a deacon, when we
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:had a very small Easter Vigil at St.
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:Mark's on the Hill in Pikesville.
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:There were probably five of us that
showed up and I got to sing the Exsultet.
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:So but, but somebody said to me, uh, after
they heard me sing it for the first time,
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:that they sort of, with a slight surprise.
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:in her voice.
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:You really prayed that.
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:That was really a prayer.
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:And, you know, my response was, yeah.
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:And that's surprised, you know,
because I don't know how, it's kind
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:of part of the fabric of my being.
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:I don't know how to do it any other way.
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:And in truth, it's been a little bit of a
struggle for me in singing Sweet Adelines.
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:I got into Sweet Adelines because
everything was churchy in my life.
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:At that 10 years ago, I was doing
everything related, was related to church
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:and I felt like I was going to lose my
mind if I didn't do something not church.
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:So I decided to use music as my outlet
and joined the Sweet Adelines group.
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:And it has been a struggle for me because
so much of what we sing is not necessarily
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:spiritual or religious or anything else.
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:In fact, some of it's a little you know,
could be suggestive of other things.
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:And so I've, I've had to find ways
to access, and reshape the way
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:I look at that music in my head.
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:To try and help be a joyful experience
because when I'm singing church music,
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:when I'm singing hymns, when I'm singing
Bach or Beethoven or any of that, it, the
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:joy naturally wells up within me, but when
I'm singing secular music, it doesn't.
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:And so I have to try and help
that joy find its way out.
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:In secular music.
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:It's interesting.
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:And I thank you for
asking me that question.
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:Yeah.
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:Jon: Thanks.
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:Thanks for the response.
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:Lauren: It sounds like
a lot of fun too, and
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:so tell, tell us how has all of you,
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:all that you've done and are doing
changed or enhanced your spiritual life?
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:Anne: I think that the ministries that
I've stuck with have been since I left
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:my full time employment in the church.
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:have been the things that have been
touchstones for me in my spiritual
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:life so for example Lauren, you asked
me about the foot care thing earlier.
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:There's a ministry that existed long
before I came here in Cincinnati of, of
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:offering foot care for homeless people.
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:And it's gone through several iterations.
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:And now it's housed at a ministry
center that's run by the Franciscans
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:we offer foot care twice twice a week.
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:And so it is a literal hands on ministry.
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:And so every time I engage in
that ministry, I revisit Jesus
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:washing the feet of his disciples.
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:And I think, and I pray with
these folks and pray with their
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:feet, pray with their hands.
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:If they want a prayer, I can offer that.
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:I'm not proselytizing, but I'm listening.
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:And if prayer seems appropriate
out loud, I'll do that.
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:But, What it does for me is it keeps
me grounded in what my faith is about.
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:That that really being present to
the, to folks who don't have the
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:wherewithal to have comfortable shoes.
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:Or, you know, folks who don't have
a place to regularly lay their head.
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:It's, it's biblical, really, and it
keeps me connected with those Bible
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:stories, and in a way, that's what the
ministry with the Seamen's Church does
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:that too, because Jesus, you know, he
called fishermen to be his disciples, so
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:it's all connected with discipleship to
me, and how, how I can be a better and
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:a more a more honest disciple of Jesus.
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:That's why I make the choices I make.
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:I have the privilege of being able to do
that, of being able to say, I use this
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:because it makes me more honest as a
human being and as a disciple of Jesus.
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:Jon: Wow.
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:No, that's that's so beautifully put in.
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:Thank you so much.
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:I, I'm just wondering, There's
such a breadth of things that
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:you've been involved in and so on.
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:What if somebody.
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:Wanted to learn more about any of these
organizations or get in touch with you.
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:Is there a way Or are there
ways that they can do that?
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:Anne: Sure.
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:I'm happy to share my email
with you the Siemens Church
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:Institute has a website, so.
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:Jon: Okay.
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:So what we can do, Anne, is we'll
put your email address with your
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:permission in our show notes.
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:that people can see if they're
listening or, or watching this,
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:as well as the Seamen's Church
Institute website that'd be great.
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:I think that there may be some people
that are in discernment around the
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:diaconate and listening to you today and
how you've kind of found ways to balance
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:Your life and all the different rich
ministries you've had over the years
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:and continue to have is, is something
people may say, Hey, I need to talk to
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:this person because maybe she can help
me decide, is diaconate right for me?
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:So, thanks.
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:We'll go ahead and make sure we put
those put those in the show notes, Anne.
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:Anne: Right.
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:That's great.
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:Thank you.
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:Lauren: Before we go, though, Ann,
is there anything else that you would
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:like to share about the diaconate?
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:and your diaconal work or any wisdom
that you want to leave us with?
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:Anne: Well, the wisdom
doesn't come from me.
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:It comes from the community, I
think., it's been such a delight
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:to be with you two my colleagues
and friends for, for so many years.
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:I think that for, I'll say a final word
about the diaconate maybe, and that is
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:that it, it is shaped by who we are.
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:And I think as individuals,
but also by the communities
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:in which we find ourselves.
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:And I have, had the privilege
of being in many, many
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:wonderful and unique situations.
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:And, and I think that The whole
purpose of my journey has been
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:to keep me honest as a Christian.
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:And and if, and that, if that's what
our lives are about, whether we're
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:deacons, priests, bishops, whatever,
lay people I think our lives.
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:Need to be a reflection of that.
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:Thank you.
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:Jon: Yeah, thank Anne thanks so much.
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:Thanks for taking the
time to be with us today.
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:I certainly have enjoyed reconnecting
with you after way too long.
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:Way too long.
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:This has been, this has been great.
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:And Once again, thank you very much.
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:Anne: Thank you.
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:Lauren: Jon and I also want
to thank all who are listening
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:and watching with us today.
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